SoMe tHiNgS iN LiFe...

Some things in life end sooner even before we realize how and when it started.  I keep wondering why these things happen in life and keep thinking for reasons.  I know that i sound silly thinking for reasons, but i couldn't help it because these instances cause a lot of disturbances in ones life and families.  No matter what happen, whatever disturbances... life doesn't stop, it just goes on and you get busy to live your life.  

The scratches get mended as time passes by and we tend to live in the present and try to forget the past, but somewhere deep down the heart i keep asking myself ...

is it easy to disregard the past ?

is it easy to forget the bitter feelings ?

is it so simple to forgive ?

Again and again i have asked these questions to myself and i got no answers.  I wish this would have been just a dream, just a mere dream and nothing more.  I thought about this over and over again and started realizing that i was in a shock till now and i need to slap myself out of it.  

I have been foolish ...i haven't been thinking straight  ...i was afraid ...not ready and i was confused, the final result was a blame, i was blamed and i think i deserve that.  I think i don't have to dislike or hate anyone even if i'm blamed and it doesn't matter if i'm or not worthy to be loved, it really doesn't matter to me anymore because i know that i have done my part of the mistake.  

Now i come to think of it, i began understanding that my questions are wrong, easy or not never disregard your past because you will miss the all best times, bitter or not never forget the feelings because they are not born out of despair and that they were once true feelings... simple or not there is no reason not be forgiven because its just a mistake and no one has control on it ... i have done mistakes too.

A BrOkeN ReLaTioN ...

The relations will never be same once broken and the very slightest disturbance causes a great damage.  Once a relationship breaks the differences may take a very long time to clear ... or may stay forever, just like the cracks on a mirror.  Every time we look into the mirror the crack reminds us of the past and nips our thoughts.  

I'm sure it takes a great deal to overcome the downbeat feeling that got imprinted on the heart, because the very same damp feeling weakens your optimistic attitude towards keeping up the relation alive.  We fight for money, lifeless things and many other over relations, its because at that time we lay the importance of the relationship behind, we fail to think ... we fail to be patient ... we fail to make a right choice … we fail to use the right words and we fail to set our priority. 

I totally agree that at that instant the circumstances just take place as they are not intended.  But, no matter what the instances are… before any misunderstandings arise, just a minute of thinking … a bit of patience … a nice word … and more importantly … putting the significance of that relationship in front  …caring for it will indeed help us save our relations … be it Friendship … Love … or Marriage.

I have experienced that the relations will never be same once broken unless you truly care for it and i have learnt that it's the choice of priority that we give to a relationship and they do not have a meaning if you do not mean it. 

The only force that can stop your relationship with anyone from breaking is YOU.